I'd just have the stuff ready to go at home when she got there.
Done deal.
You going to ask her again?
"Hey, remember this morning when I asked if you wanted a massage? And remember how you said, yeah that'd be a grat idea? Well, ummmm, just making sure you remembered. Cause you still want to do that right?"
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