Well, I got my flight to CO booked, and can't wait to spend 10 days with the two most absolutely wonderful little people on earth.
Trying to figure out how to handle things this time. Last time I was there I told her that I'd let her know what we're up to and that she's welcome to join us anytime. But, given the conversation from the other day where she told me I'm not giving her the space she needs, I'm not sure if I should do that again or not. I certainly don't want to exclude her from anything, but I have a hard time seeing the difference between that and not inviting her to join us. I also hate the fact that the kids can't have both mommy and daddy at the same time, and don't want to contribute to that in any way. On the other hand, one of her complaints has been that I always try to get her to do things she doesn't want to do. She could also see it as me trying to use the kids to get time with her. What does everyone think?
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.