I have another question for you guys. Since she has an apartment and will be moving in a couple of weeks would another way for me to detach be to pack up her stuff that is left in the house and have it waiting on her or would that cause more of a problem than needed. Also I have been thinking that I should help move. I have told her that I understand why we separated and I am supporting her through it. So by me doing this I think it is a way to support her through it. Plus I have a lot of time on my hands.


Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009
Me-29 W-26
S-5 S-2
Bomb 12/10
Separated 1/11
D filed 2/11