Now that I am SHOWING that I love and care for her things are better.
That is what happens when a couple's relationship grows. Maturing together is not easy b/c we often have to experience "growing pains", but when the smoke clears and we're still standing, that says a lot!
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She believes that if she hugs or touches me that I think sex right away. I had no idea she thought like this.
Just keep teaching her by the method you used for quite a spell when there wasn't any sex and you were spooning. How her.
The next time she says you have 15 minutes, then be prepared to use that as an opportunity to teach her. "So, I have 15 minutes to do whatever I want? Well, get over her and let me nibble on your ears and whisper sweet nothings." Or, start toward her with your arms wide open and say something like, "I been wanting time for some good smooching!"
When she discovers that she can give you physical affection without it leading into sex, then I believe she will be quicker to touch you without wondering if there is enough time....
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
