She is just living her fantasy life like everything is peachy. She has to have doubt, she has to have anger, she has to have saddness. I wish she would express something!
Exactly. She is living her fantasy life. She has her affair, and she still has her H as a friend.
It is a tough situation. I understand that you don't want to come across as mean. But why would she ever confront any doubt, anger or sadness that she may have if she isn't forced to confront it?
The only way to get her to confront those things, if they are there, is for her to see that she risks losing you by continuing on her current path.
The only way for her to see that is for you to go dark and GAL.
IMHO of course...
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
