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Nothing much to add the last few days. I have continued to GAL and will be going to a comedy show tomorrow night.

Last night, W and I slept together on the couch. Spooning. I expect she'll probably distance herself a bit today. She suggested I might want to go to a happy hour tonight or something since I had my going away lunch at my current job today.

Just keep working the plan. See where this goes.


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Last night, W and I slept together on the couch. Spooning. I expect she'll probably distance herself a bit today.



Sometimes I forget what it's like to lie close to my wife, let alone spoon. Consider that a motivation for you to keep on truckin'. wink


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I hear ya, alamo. Only happens when she slips up at this point for me ... doesn't feel that good to be only snuggled on accident either.


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ahhh...onestep...er, I mean ironman.

Don't look at it as a slipup. Think positive. It's her subconscious talking. That's without walls or defenses. I look at it as the true feelings without any affectations.

Enjoy those small moments for sure!


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Its not a slip up, ironman. If she did not want to feel you beside her she would have stood up and left. I am sure of that.


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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

What Angel said. Definitely NOT a slipup. What do I keep telling you guys? They start training us girls early on how to distance ourselves when we want to. They take us aside in kindergarten and tell us how to thwart unwanted advances. We're ninjas on the topic by the first grade smile

If she wanted to be away from you, she would have been.


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Oh yes Ironman. The girls are most definitely right on here. Not a slip up. That may be what she wants you to think, but not.

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"Slip UP"

No Such Thing!

Not at this stage my friend.


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