Not Sure Which Way to Go

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Juststunned
I have stopped fighting her completely. There has been a couple of times she has come at me and tried to fight like we would have previously. Everytime I have said to her I am not going to fight you and that I understand where she is coming from and those types of thing. The best part about it is when I say "I understand" I really do understand why she has the feelings she does. It makes it a lot easier to not fight with her when I truly understand. One question for you though. So her asking about me seeing other people is just a way for her not to feel guilty about the OM?

As far as GAL I have been going and hanging out with friends I had lost connection with over the years since I had let that go when we were together. I have really maintaining my appearence. I had let it slip over the years and now that I have the means I have been doing some shopping and get my appearence the way I want to be. I always put my family first a let my clothing get out of style. The main thing I am doing is getting my life back on track financially and getting this situated so when/if we D then I am prepared.

gr8 day,
Thanks for the insight that is the type of stuff I am looking for. I understand the concepts and have been trying to read as many posts as possible to pick up on some of it but I am in a "bind for time". I have to get the ball rolling quickly.