For the first six months I tried to "win" her back. She moved out two months after bomb. After thatI went cold turkey, I totally detached started living life for me and having a great time.
She did come back last fall.(Short lived)
She said to me "Gr8 you where trying for the for 6 months then just stopped. I didn't know how you felt about me anymore"
Read that again.
I flipped the sitch around. I made her start thinking about why I was doing so well. She thought I should be unhappy. She was no more happier a year later after leaving me then she was when she was with me.
I made her feel as if she was losing me. Truth, she was. I didn't focus 1 ounce of attention on her.
It was all about me and my kids and good times we were having.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
