It's the personal attacks. I don't know how to separate his words from reality.
You separate by the truth....that only you know.
You use that "sting" test to see if they affect you...
No sting ?
Then you file it under MLC garb. Don't fully dismiss it yet, just file it for later...
If it does sting ?
You might want to take a closer look at it...
Originally Posted By: MsRae
I know that it comes from how I grew up. Nothing I did was ever right. Any mistake was brought up over and over and over again. Until you could hardly lift your head any more. My dad is an alcoholic and he is one of the meanest people I have ever met in my life. Cruel.
Your husband is not your Father, and treating them equally is not gonna bear fruit for you....
Two people, two sets of problems....
That's gonna zap your power if you confuse them....
