It never goes well. She always takes it wrong, like there is something wrong with her(which of course there is). She really does not care if she ever has sex again, even though she enjoys it when she does. She now claims to not love me and to not be attracted to me. Funny, tough some of her friends would love to jump my bones. She looks for reasons to blame ME. Let's face it, many women lose their sex drives and just flat out have nop clue as to why. I have read Dr. Harley's site and he has dozens of letters from women that have NO DESIRE, and have no clue as to why. It is not unusual. Dr. Harley says that 90% of the couples he treats have women with desire that is WAY to low. It seems that women ask for 2/3 of all divorces, probably because they have grown apart emotionally from their husbands. But if a woman loses here sex drive, SHE HAS TO EXPECT THAT HER HUSBAND WILL STOP MEETING HER NEEDS. A man can only go so long without getting his needs met before he basically starts ignoring his wife!
In my wifes case, her own mother is pretty "Bitchy". My wife also moved out of her natuaral mothers house and moved into another families house when she was 16 and the family she lived with have not had sex in 40+ years. She also has friends that have sexless marriages, so she thinks that MANY couples have sexless marriages and survive OK.
