You're one of the exceptions to the LBS your story is a bit different. For me, I used to not care why, I'd just passive agressively retaliate, for years.
In fact in piecing? Why assume anything why guess? Just ask.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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