Another purpose of being detached is that it may cause the WAS to draw closer to the LBS rather than move farther away. The opposite of what happens when we ATTACH at the beginning of the situation.
But that is exactly the reason most of us are here right? We are here because we do still want our M's to work. We detach for 2 reasons, one to get ourselves to a better place, and two in hopes this will save our M's. My point is that being able to at least give the appearance of detaching while we are actually working on detaching is at least helping with #2.
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