I like what you said Denver, but I can't help but feel that anything other than complete detachment is just acting or "faking" it. I"m not sure if many of us would be on this site if we were doing anything but faking it. GALing is so important for your mental state I agree, but I know that no matter what I am doing, my W is always in the back of my mind. Are we all just working on our acting skills?