Not Sure Which Way to Go

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Any way I would like to know some of the things you guys did to keep your S from focusing on the negatives.

You can't. All you can do is validate their feelings.
Say "I can see how you could have thought that"

How do you argue with someone who's agreeing with you? You can't.

Women want to be heard, not fixed.


They way they view the M is their own reality. It's what their chosing to see. From my experiance it's a way for thewm to justify their decision to end the M.
We all have our own reality. How we view it may be totally different than someone else's view.


Focus on what you can control.