You said: "I want to see letters from HD men that have COMPLETELY FRIDGID BITCH wives, where they have employed all the techniques of SSM and this board, where the wife is not much of a willing partner."
I always wince when I see you refer to your wife this way. You seem to do it often. You seem so angry that I wonder if you can ever reach a state of peace with her.
My question is this: To what extent have you explained your unhappiness to your wife? For example, would you be willing to have her read this board? If not, why not? Does she know that you are totally miserable in your marriage?
In the past, you've said that you and your W never fight. This fact alarms me. If you are angry enough to call her this name (FBW) then it seems to me you two should be fighting all the time. Anything less would be very unhealthy.
