I can do all the work, I can come out of this a better man, but the fact is, right now, she is in complete control. As long as I do not want a D, I am paralyzed.
How does one conquer their fears???
By facing them head on! Your fear of her D you is your gryptonite. It's preventing you from living your life the way you want to.
Women sense fear like a wild dog. It';s not an attractive trait.
Women like confident men, Men who can handle a woman's feelings.
Let her problems be hers, stop trying to fix the M. If you haven't yet, pick up the book Boundaries.
It will teach you how not to allow other peoples problems affect your life.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
