I just can't take the not knowing anything anymore. I have no idea of what her plans are. I don't know which one of us is staying or going. I have know idea what her plans are for the kids. I have no idea what to expect, or what to prepare for
Habit, I can hear the fear in your posts. I can recognize it b/c I too was once where you are. Once the pain of your current situation is greater than the fear of what's in the future, then a change will come.
Remember, YOU have choices too. If you want to see a change then you need to flip the situation. You need to start letting your W thinking/worrying about what your gonna do.
You feel like crud b/c your allowing her actions/inactions to effect the way you live. It's a common mistake.
How are you going to flip the sitch??
gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
