It is a stroke of luck that Gram died right now. Or maybe she planned it that way. Nothing like a funeral to pull people together and remember the importance of family. i'm not kidding! And you are handling it beautifully by being supportive and letting your wife and MIL come first before your business.
Maybe you could find some time while in NY to visit Niagara Falls, or some other nice weekend getaway with your wife. Something that will replace the memories of nice OM with nice Denver. You don't have to battle OM. You have to win your wife. He will fade from her mind and her heart if you are in both places.
Thanks Lotus. I think that it was a bit of a gamble and I probably shouldn't have made it. It certainly wasn't the 'safe' thing to do. Luckily it seems to have paid off. whew!!
W mentioned something about us going to Niagara Falls. I'd hate to go all the way out there and not see that! I think that a nice getaway is a great idea!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
