Quote: I might ask you about the "distant past". When your sex life together was good. Even for seemingly brief periods of time.
What was going on then? What was different during these times? What was happening that was good that may have helped this to happen?
Thanks for the clarification JJ. The funny thing is that my relationship with my H now is a lot better than the way it was when we had a sex life. We are loving and affectionate and considerate towards each other. We laugh a lot together and enjoy each others company. We communicate better now too, except about sex that is. Anyway, my sitch is complicated by the fact that h is taking meds for panic attack and is often stressed by the fact that it may affect his work. He feels a lot of pressure from this as he is the sole breadwinner since I am a SAHM. I suspect his low libido is a result of the meds but its only my guess since he will not say even though I have asked. I have no heart to pressure him further so I keep quiet now and everything is good between us, only, there is no passion. I am 4 1/2 months pregnant now and Dr says no sex so its just as well isn't it but I do not forsee this problem going away. Sigh.
