JTB-
When you say monk-like - do you mean I have to shave a doughnut into my head and wear a half beard? At least they make great beer!

I was even thinking of going in that EVEN if she rolled over and "returned the favor" I would cut it off.

Well, not IT it but the progression and say, "I said no strings attached."

That would leave her wanting more.

I doubt that would happen so I have to go in with nothing. Like I said, my only expectation is that I get to touch my W. It's not exactly monk-like but it is low expectations for sure.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE