Recovering after a same sex affair

[sparks14]

Well, as I was writing that last message, my wife called back. It looks like her parents are coming back in town tomorrow morning. She asked if I could take our S as scheduled but reschedule dinner until Sunday. She said that she had some paperwork and stuff to get done before they got here.

Not sure what the purpose of her parents visit is. Her mother is very controlling. I only know a few facts about her parents right now, since wife won't let me talk to them.

1. I know is that her parents know everything and are extremely upset about everything.
2. They are trying to "fix" my wife.
3. My wife has told me that when they came down last time, it was 24 hours of just grilling her (so she says).
4. They don't want her to take the teaching job and daycare (due to pay).
5. They don't want her to move into her own apartment (wife said that dad wanted me to know that he would help her pay for it but did not condone it).
6. She has said they fear what my family would try and do as far as D and custody. My wife will not let me talk to them to resolve these fears, but she says that she has told them everything that I have told her.

I guess I just have a fear of the unknown right now. I hate the lack of communication. In the end, this is between my wife and her parents.

Detach!!!!!! Why is that so hard to do?