Where has YOUR road taken you, If you don't mind me asking?
I don't mind at all. I was in a similar situation to you.
I have managed to turn things around. Not everything is perfect, but it is much better than it was. I am still learning how to be a better man, I don't think I will ever stop.
I have done a lot of backsliding, even after my W re-committed to the R, but most important is that I have never given up.
I have seen your suggestions and i love them. It is also very inspiring to know that there might some light at the end of the looong tunnel. Thanks!
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...