I understand how you feel. I have been through all of that....all I can tell you is resist the urge. Whenever something comes fom us LBS, it is seen as pressure.

Find something you can enjoy on your own....see if your H will join you in it. Otherwise, let him suggest something and if you feel like it, enjoy!

Can't believe thats coming from me....I was one of the most resistant here! But I am seeing the light too.

Remember the when you pull, he will push. So try it out this weekend. See where it will get you!

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go