no more calling and texting

and

do not try to read your wife's mind
(as in she probably thought I forgot to text as I was having such fun)

she might not have even registered that you didn't

and

if she asked for space

why would you be texting her everynight anyway?

you need to stop BEING there all the time
you need to let her sink or swim on her own

so her parents don't approve
you don't need to give her a big hug and draw yourself into that drama

that is your wife's drama
not yours

let her experience it on her own

a simple
wow...I am sorry you feel like they are ganging up on you. That must be hard (then change the topic...it is not your job to comfort her)

do you want to be her consoler
or
do you want to be her husband

because, while being a partner means being both...you aren't her partner right now