Thanks SC. Im sorry to hear you are going thru similar. Frankly hard for me to read this board and read so many painful stories. Its like reliving it for me all over again.
It amazes me to this day how similar the stories are too. I guess thats why the D rate in this country is 50%, I think they make it too easy to D too, at least in my state. I know some require separation for one year first for example. Especially when kids are involved. For kids your life is just never the same, and I know as someone whose parents D when I was about 3 or 4. I NEVER imagined my own kids would go thru the same, my W was adopted. Making sure we kept our family together no matter what was always HUGE part of our discussions when we talked about having kids. And we were blessed with twins.
It just all feels so wrong. All I can do is be the best Dad I can be for those girls, and I will, always.
Me 44 H 39 Met in 1998 Married in 2004 D 5, twins Bomb - May 16th, 2010
"Don't let Tomorrow or Yesterday get in the way of Today"
