WAW on the Peninsula

[sandycay]

The right thing is to be a father to your children as much as possible. They need you more than you need her. It is overwhelming but I see people time again giving in at the expense of their kids because they think it somehow will bring their spouse back to senses.

I really hope between now and the time she leaves you will give her space and GAL starting today. How does she have money to move and sustain herself until she finds employment? Are you funding this as well? Since you are th account holder on the cell phone you can always check the records to see what is going on. But only do it once.....snooping is terrible for the soul. You can still cut the phone off and get a refund for the month. I would not do anything to help aid anything that was destroying my marriage. BOUNDARIES are a good thing. The are respected for people who are willing to place them.