Playing hard to get has it's place, but only if you weren't guilty of neglect, or anything that smacked of it, apathy which lead to you being here.
Does that make sense?
If you never had or made time for her in the past, now might not be the best time to try something that might remind her of it.
X,
Your wife is she a morning person? Mine isn't, never was, never will be. However, part of her change, was to be pleasant in the morning when I left for work. Instead of bithcing when I kiss her goodbye, she smiles and wishes me a good day and to be careful.
It was something she realized on her own, I mean we talked about it, but it was never a boundary.
I occasionally still thank her for it and appreciate it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
