Quote: We should bear in mind that everybody's definition of "success" is going to be different. This is about finding a compromise between two people who want very different things. The middle ground may not be what you imagined it to be, but it would be something that made you both happy.
Amen, Jiji!
I think that this is gonna be one of the biggest hurdles is actually "defining" what "success" is!
Is it the frequency of sex, the "quality" of it (under our own definitions), the variation of "routine", the variety of methods, who initiates it, etc., etc.?
This is where you get back into the basics of "knowing what you want", and then setting some small goals on how to get there.
Much more to say, but that's probably enough for now!!
JJ
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