This ^^^^ IMO, is the gift of all of this. The gift of having to endure the pain…when we finally starting looking inside, we learn to be very honest with ourselves.
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She may never snap out of her fog, some MLCer’s never do. Honestly, given her nature and her family I don’t think she will ever realize the level of pain she has caused, nor acknowledge it even if she does realize it. She comes from a very prideful family and during our marriage was never very apologetic or one to admit wrong doing.
Are you sure she is not related to my STBXW? LOL. I feel ya dude. Personally, I have finally stop expecting her to ever admit to any wrong doing. That my friend is their problem. One day though….they will realize and come to understand the pain and errors of there actions. We may never hear it..but deep down inside they will realize. Why do I say this? We’ll cause honestly I do believe that God or some higher power exists and at some point, be it on a death bed we all come to the realization of what our actions cause and how we lived our lives.
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Of course "LordoftheRings" would get Eric's vote for sure and the underlying meaning would garner a snicker from you guys everytime you posted to me. (certainly some value in that!!)
Yep….I vote for Lord of the Rings…hey you can shorten it….say…LOTF. Dude, I am not gonna post about how wonderful you are or how much you endured..You already now that. What I have to say is…..when do you want to do the double date thing  With Love, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
