Yes, I could have done better during my marriage and I own that and will never forget those lessons.
Hindsight is 20/20 SA. Now that you know better you will do better. Now that you have different tools in your tool chest you will deal with things differently. As for never forgetting…I hear ya. I believe it is important to keep a little bit of the pain around, as a reminder of our mistakes so that we do not make them again.
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I did not foresee this and I should have...in hindsight the signs were there. I was too busy in my role to pay attention.
Many of us did not foresee this SA…..Don’t let guilt creep in and force you to relive your past. Don’t let thoughts of could have should have take a hold of you. Why?
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The one thing I believe is that it truly would not have mattered whether I was a perfect wife or a biotch on wheels to my H, this would have ended up happening anyway.
Because of this ^^^^^ you are right….it would have happened anyway.
In closing I leave you with this…..
God’s will!
At the end of the day, the only thing we can control is ourselves – the rest is in his hands. You SA, are in his hands and as long as your are there….we’ll everything will be alright.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
