please help on what i need to do.

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So it was about 4 days of going dark. But had to break that silence today. Bank contacted me that our accounts went into the negative. Saw some trasnactions that W initiated. I did not what they were. So i had to call her. We cleared it up and brought our account back to where it should be. But i now i feel that going dark phase has been broken

I would love to also have some feedback on this one. W is already looking for some kindergartens for daughter near her parents. She sent me an email with 2 of them and she wanted my opinion. I trust my wife's opinion on the schools. So i dont have a problem if she picks either one. But should i tell her my opinion, or should i tell her i don't care. My reasoning for the latter being that she would know that i am not happy with any of these developments. But if i have to think practically, i guess i should go with giving my opinion.

help!