Did not give in and text last night. W probably thinks I had too much fun with the guys last night and just forgot to text. I guess I will let her think that I had a great time without her and getting along with my life.
I am going to continue to detach and not send text messages all day.
My wife asked me after our couples therapy session if I wanted to have dinner with her and our S out tonight. We had a great time last week with a stress free, relationship discussion free, drama free dinner. I wouldn't mind these to continue on a week to week basis. I wouldn't call them "date nights", but at least they are quality nights spent together right now.
As I was typing this, my W called for a few logistical matters but also to mention if we are still on for dinner tonight. I told her that we were, and I would take care of the preparations and pick them up at 5:45.
Okay. Now no more text messages or call coming from me for the rest of the day.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated