HELP - need your opinion: problem or not?

[Truegritter]

W was my "first", adn that I think gives her some power, even to this day.

She doesn't have anything you didn't give her. So how do you take back your power? Actually not really take it back.

How do you stop giving it to her?

She didn't respect me because I didn't respect myself.

Bingo.

I was on top of everything - classes, martial arts training, SCUBA diving, travel - and had tons of friends and I was fun.

And now?

What can I do right now? I don't know.

You do know though you might not see it because you are hurting and attached to your W and her judgment of you.

There are 100 excuses you can use for NOT doing what you know you can and must do.

Most of them have to do with being a victim of someone elses choices or behavior.

So Still. Are you going to live up to your name and remain still.?

Or

Choose to call yourself by another name.

One that defines who you are and the kind of man you strive to be.

This is ALL YOU.