I freaking LOVE that book. I know that, in time, my W will read it as well. It is so great to actually UNDERSTAND what the other person is feeling.
The big thing that I'm getting out of that book is the people's perceptions CAN change. I used to think that perception can be so far away from reality. I say one thing and W would take it completely different.
Now I'm learning not only to say things a little differently so that her perception is closer to my reality but also how to deal with the way she DOES perceive it.
I got it at the library but am sure I will buy it.
I can't thank you enough.
You know the thing that I'm looking forward with the massage (whenever it happens) is that she will feel physically good. She's always liked my touches and I haven't done this in a long time. It will be great for her to simply relax without any pressure.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE