Originally Posted By: Still
Look, I know I brought this on by being weak and whiny.


Okay you looked in the mirror and you are honest with yourself.

Why were you this way?

And don't give the answer that your W piled all this on you.

You are only a victim once then you become a volunteer.

Truegritter why are you asking me these questions when my M is in trouble and I need to save it now?

Because my friend your W began detaching from your M in 2005 when she told you she did not respect you.

And THAT will be her justification for any of her transgressions.

Doesn't make it right but it is most likely the truth.

In any event whether she is or isn't in a R with her boss.

What are you going to do?

What do you control?

What is a 180 for you? And how are you going to achieve it?

Look I know you're hurting right now and more of the truth that you have to face the harder it is.

You just got kicked in the jimmy pretty hard and there is likely more to come.

If you want. Answer my questions.

Including the one from my last post

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Your goal? To save your M. So what can YOU do right now to do that?


All is not lost Still. But you have to take action.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am