To that whole response all I can say is wow. I am borrowing those incredible words of guidance and copying them to my thread.
Bless you!
Angel,
I'm in a similar sitch as you, wrestling with the old cliche that if you love something set it free...
It ain't easy but I believe it is the only true and reliable path.
What I do know is that the more I detach and letter her go, the more she initiates and keeps coming back to me.
THESE are the moments I am cherishing. Celebrating. Reveling in. These precious conversations my wife and I are having, the intimacy, the truth, the awareness, the presence, relaxation, flow...these are the moments that truly matter.
This is now and this is where she and I are at, and I wouldn't trade these difficult times with her for all the pleasure in the world with someone else.
That's simply how it is for me.
And something tells me you are on that path as well.
Keep up.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
