As the Bolt Turns

[Bolt]

Bolt. That is awesome. I wish I could fly your therapist to TX and work some of that magic. I would love a list of things I could do to make my marriage work. That's is something I could relate to.

I guess, in the meantime, I need to get through some of these hard conversations in therapy, before we can start really working on us and finding out where the holes are and what areas need improvement for us to work. The sexual orientation piece in my relationship definitely adds a dynamic, but I just want to listen and learn what my wife's needs are.

Also, I have been taking your advice concerning detachment to heart. It has been difficult at times, but I think it is for the best.

Thanks, man.

I wish I could. She's been awesome. Really gave me a huge week this week with telling me how proud she is of my changes and encouraging me to continue.

Yeah, the list is pretty huge. Can't remember if I said this but I look at the title of the list and saw, "Things for you to do for me to love you."

If that's not motivation, I don't know what is.

Funny thing is...I'm thinking of looking for an office for this month while we're still here. Just to start showing her that I am committed to this.

Keep detaching, Sparks. I know you sitch is tough but stay strong!