Bolt. That is awesome. I wish I could fly your therapist to TX and work some of that magic. I would love a list of things I could do to make my marriage work. That's is something I could relate to.

I guess, in the meantime, I need to get through some of these hard conversations in therapy, before we can start really working on us and finding out where the holes are and what areas need improvement for us to work. The sexual orientation piece in my relationship definitely adds a dynamic, but I just want to listen and learn what my wife's needs are.

Also, I have been taking your advice concerning detachment to heart. It has been difficult at times, but I think it is for the best.

Thanks, man.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated