Lis - just back on the board after a few days here and catching up - sounds like you had a stunning turn-a-round with your H -so I don't get the comment about your falling for "it" hook line and sinker - is this not continuing in a good direction it sounded fabulous from the comments I was reading above.
Today is a BIG day for me here, we have friends from out of the country that we have not seen in 26 years - they emailed me and invited both my w and I out for dinner tomorrow night - Saturday. The friends have no idea that we are separated. I let my W know of the invitation to join us for dinner and asked if she would agree to go - she wrote back saying that she appreciated the thought and would think about it and let me know if she will come or not.
We shall see. My hope is that she does agree to spend a fun evening with us, however is she will not, I am still going and am determined to have a fabulous time with old friends - I am on the path of GAL in many aspects, but I do hope that she will find it in her heart to join us.
I will let you all know if she does, or does not - irrespective of her decision , I am deciding on having a good day
M-58 W-56 Married 33 years BOMB -Sept/10 Separated 8 months
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"Go Confidently in the direction of YOUR dreams - Live the life you've imagined" - Thoreau
