Originally Posted By: Still
I have not observed her encouraging this behavior, but I do think she enjoys it and the sense of power it brings her in the office.


When do think you would be witness to that?

I am not trying to stir up trouble here for you Still I just don't want you to tell lies to yourself.

Really. Look at this. She gets a communication like that.

You either shut it down or you don't.

If you don't.

Then you encourage it or at least become a victim of it.

You know your W which is more likely?

I haven't read your other threads but maybe if you are having problems

Can you suggest counseling?

I think her willingness to go into a process like that will tell you more about where she is.

She most likely will give it lip service and not engage fully if she has emotionally left your M.

Try to keep your emotions in check here Still.

Your goal? To save your M. So what can YOU do right now to do that?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am