I still want to make this work

[Bolt]

now here's the weird part about the "game". Make sure you're doing things for yourself and not for your W to find out about it. I don't mean to make it that sort of game.

Maybe game is the wrong word. Maybe dance is better. Someone has to lead and someone has to follow. In a weird way, by going dark, you are leading. By her trying to find out what you are doing is following.