FROM THIS MOMENT FORWARD, you begin to be the type of H that you want to be... the H that your W wants... and deserves.
If no A is happening right now, one is on the horizon. So you want to begin to make your W see some changes in you. Whatever those may be. If you do, she may think twice before moving any further with this deal with her boss.
If an A is already happening, you will notice right away that your attempts to be a really damn good H are going to be rebuffed by your W. She may even become mean about you all of a sudden making these changes.
I would NOT confront her right now.
IF you do in the future, one thing to consider is that your W's boss probably needs to have some concern about his job. What he is doing is NOT only inappropriate, but it is sexual harassment, and most likely against his company's employment policies. You might want to point that out to your W IF you confront in the future.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
