I know an MLCer cycles as far as unpredictable behavior - does a "regular" WAS do the same?
The behavior is similar; and the same "rules" are followed by the LBS; the only difference is in the level of confusion exhibited by both.
The confusion is much deeper within the MLC'er than it is within the WAS.
There IS a fog there within the WAS; but still, not as deep as what is within the MLC'er.
Those are my thoughts.
Doesn't matter either way; keep doing what you're doing.
I'm really sorry about your mom; and I hope she gets better; sounds like you're having a rough time at the moment.
Focus on her at the moment; she needs you right now.
You are in my thoughts and prayers; for God to give you strength to be there for your mom.
Mothers are special; that's for sure. I know yours is dear to your heart.
Keep us posted on how she is.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.