Positively moving forward

[ClingingToHope]

The bank thing is just sooooo much different than what I've been told. Interesting.

One of the reasons I'm finally pushing the D forward is to try to limit my financial exposure to STBXW.

Even though I'm not on any of her credit cards, a bankruptcy attorney told me if STBXW goes bankrupt those credit card companies are going to come after me because we were married when she got them.

That's what may eventually push me into bankruptcy.

I agree on wanting to avoid confrontation. I read the draft of the letter my L wrote to her L and I didn't like the first sentence. It sounded too confrontational so I sent a revised sentence and he adopted it.