Though I'm pi**ing her off by trying to validate her complaints and dropping the rope, she still manages to get the hooks in. Apparently I had a chance to get her back from OM but she's now lost all hope. I failed perform well enough during her affair to get her back. It's bizarre, but these things have begun to hurt my feelings again.
Me too buddy. I apparently had TWO chances. Of course, I didn't know about them until she moved out.
Like MHL, my W rarely admitted fault and demanded unqualified apologies from me. It's apparent she will likely not take any responsibility for her part in the failure of our M.
How do I continue to detach when W says she ready to file yet is still monitoring my phone? [/quote]
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
