Our marriage is under quite a bit of stress. Things are definately not OK. Marriage stress, kid stress, work stress. And she knows I do not trust her boss. My other threads explain.
On the other hand, I tend to worry too much and have a lot of anxiety about abondonment (good reasons, but pre-W). I've been very unhappy since W went back to work - long story, see other threads, and seeing a therapist. Asked W to join me, but she said no. I may have pushed her away some by worrying about this and seeming needy. Working on that. I have great success when boss is not in the picture and in our daily lives.
So....I really have no idea if this is appropriate or not and what to do about it.....
