So when your w is acting like an idiot and trying to upset you all the time, when she asks for a favour, do you do it for her?
I think that after all she has done to me, that as long as she is with the OM i do nothing for her.
So I didnt cave to her want so she tried to make me look bad in my kids eyes. So i surprised her and called them at om house and told them specifically that i wouldnt let them stay 2 hours later with mommy as they needed to be in bed.
They were good, and it took the wind out of her sails. I never make her look bad to the kids, why would she want to do that to me?