HELP!! PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT TO TELL ME IF I'M CRAZY.
My W works in a different office of the same company, with a new boss who has been on board for 1 year. They have ALOT in common and the new boss "stops by" often and plans frequent elaborate office team building parties. I have been uncomfortable with him, suspecting a budding EA. When I observe them together it get a bit uncomfortable. But so far my wife seems to be very forthcoming about what goes on day-today and never hides away her work phone - good signs perhaps. She does often dress very cute however.
The boss is becoming a constant fixture in her work life - I hear his name constantly - and the phone emails and texts are frequent at least several a day, often flirty - always the kind that could be taken two ways.
Tonight, he sent the following text, along with a photo of my wife's favorite meal from her favorite resturant:
"Thinking of You......"
He sent a very similar message in December.
I have a tendency to overreact to this partciular sort of thing - not outwardly, just it causes anxiety.
So.......I need some objective advice. Is this inappropriate? evidence that something is going on? should I confront W?
PLEASE HELP - I'll never make it through tomorrow without a big OR talk.....
