Where has YOUR road taken you, If you don't mind me asking?
I don't mind at all. I was in a similar situation to you.
I have managed to turn things around. Not everything is perfect, but it is much better than it was. I am still learning how to be a better man, I don't think I will ever stop.
I have done a lot of backsliding, even after my W re-committed to the R, but most important is that I have never given up.
Backsliding/struggling or not, you are a success story. You WILL get to that place you want to be, and I'm happy that your wife is there by your side. You are an inspiration to me and a lot of us here.
No doubt that I want my marriage to survive and thrive as well. I hope, with God's help and blessing, that I can fight the good fight.
