I have been reading the His Needs/Her Needs book. In there, Dr. Harley tells about the 5 basic needs that men and women have. Of course the #1 need for the average man is "Sexual Fullfillment". He talks about some research that was done on why rich and powerful men leave their wives for other women. He wanted to know why men that are leaders in religion, business, etc. and have families, children, wives, money, and power, why they would risk losing everything just for the OW. The answer he got was surprising, these men said that without that special sexual relationship(being lovers), NOTHING ELSE IN LIFE REALLY MATTERS.
How many HD guys here feel this way? I know that this is being driven relentlessly by the testosterone in our bodies. I know that I am going down this path, but fighting it the whole way. I think that many men eventually get to the point where they would be willing to chuck everything, wife, kids, job, savings, EVERYTHING just to find that special sexual realtionship with OW. No I can understand what was driving Bill Clinton to RISK EVERYTHING with any number of his women. Boy, do I sound like some horrible guy. But yet I read the postings on the MLC board, and all I see that many of the WAH on that board are literally throwing it all away for the "Special Sexual Relationship".
Do HD women eventually get to this point as well?
One little interesting thing I saw on TV was about men that were changing their sexes to female. These men all had to get female hormone therapy long before they had any surgery. These men all commented that the very pleasurable side effect of the hormones "Is that their sex drives were GREATLY dimished". Think about that, these guys were HAPPY that they were losing their sex drives.
